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Suzie and her toy bear

Posted on: November 04, 2009 at 01:12 AM

I heard Suzie, my daughter, talking to someone when I walked by her room. I looked around her room, but I couldn’t see anyone but her.

I thought this was strange and decided to watch for a while. Then I heard what Suzie was saying. “Suzie, stand in the corner to think about the mistakes you have made. You often behave badly and never listen to me,” Suzie said. Then I saw her toy bear in the corner of the room. It was clear that Suzie was talking to her toy bear.

“I’m really tired of you. I don’t know how to deal with you anymore,” Suzie went on with her “conversation”. “Whenever I start to work, you always want to play games with me, and you often make my life difficult.”

Then Suzie ran to the toy bear and said, “I have done all of that just to spend more time with you. I know you have lots of work to do, so I want to help you with it, but I never expect that my help has brought you trouble.” “I am afraid of being alone and just want to be with you all the time,” she said in a low voice.

Suzie’s words made me very sad. I hadn’t done my duty as a mother. I hadn’t paid enough attention to what was in my daughter’s mind. It was time for me to make some changes in my life. I would try my best to care about and understand her.

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    Report Inappropriate Content! By dnllmchll November 09, 2009 at 01:24 PM
This is so heartbreaking! But I think it's an issue that happens more often than not, and you're lucky to have seen and heard what you did. You can make a change. You can be the voice for the children that feel the way that Suzie does. You can be the one to make a difference in someone else's life. Good luck with everything!

    Report Inappropriate Content! By tiffanyann17 November 09, 2009 at 12:31 PM
it crazy she talking to something but maybe it helping her maybe she mean to say it to u but sometime just can't cuz she afrid of u geting mad or something like that.

    Report Inappropriate Content! By jimmyXD November 07, 2009 at 11:00 AM
seriously dont u think its a little wierd that her daughter is putting her name on the doll and placing herself as her mother?

    Report Inappropriate Content! By smarttdj November 07, 2009 at 06:41 PM
She's role playing. It's not weird.

    Report Inappropriate Content! By jimmyXD November 08, 2009 at 08:45 AM
no matter how old or young this girl is role playing is a little wierd dont u think ?

    Report Inappropriate Content! By smarttdj November 08, 2009 at 11:39 AM
Not really. Kids do it all the time. I can certainly remember doing it when I was a kid.

    Report Inappropriate Content! By jimmyXD November 09, 2009 at 02:40 PM
whatever- (dont reply)

    Report Inappropriate Content! By PLUR92 November 04, 2009 at 08:18 PM
Who is this Jimmy guy!!!!!

    Report Inappropriate Content! By jimmyXD November 04, 2009 at 08:12 PM
0-o thats extremely disturbing

    Report Inappropriate Content! By smarttdj November 04, 2009 at 07:23 PM
I just hope that you can all learn from this & that you will be better for it.

    Report Inappropriate Content! By PLUR92 November 04, 2009 at 11:41 AM
This is really sad, but im glad as a mother you realized that every minute with you child matters. Hope things get better

    Report Inappropriate Content! By bisexual12 November 04, 2009 at 11:38 AM
wow that is crazy. is that what her daughter wanted to say to her mom or something.

    Report Inappropriate Content! By jimmyXD November 04, 2009 at 08:13 PM
Your dum aren't you?

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