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Don't Wanna Look Like A Lesbian



Did anyone happened to catch Texas A&M's newly released media guide for the 2009-2010 women's basketball team?  Or Florida State's women's basketball team website?  Oh how times have changed since I was a college athlete.

The Seattle Times reporter Jayda Evans recently wrote about the newly redesigned women's collegiate media guides and websites with an overt feminized message.  One has to question if this is some kind of attempt to re-brand female basketball players based on widely accepted views that if you're a female college athlete who plays basketball, odds are you're a lesbian.  Evans article examines this seemingly new wave of over-feminizing female basketball players as a way to mask "butchness." (Yes, even the WNBA has attempted to sex up feminize its gals).  Evans highlights Training Rules, a recent documentary film by Dee Mosbacher and Fawn Yacker about former Penn State coach Rene Portland, who supposedly touted three rules for her female players: No drinking. No drugs. No lesbians.

Here's the trailer clip from Training Rules



Evans writes:

"The film is fascinating in its inside look at how homophobia has a choke hold on women's sports in general. How it's used against each other in recruiting, tagging programs as full of lesbians, and how schools/coaches over feminize themselves to not appear lesbian. All under the "innocent" veil of wanting to show women athletes can be "powerful, beautiful, strong and accomplished." Or, to put it more simply, heterosexual, too.
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As a former high school basketball player and collegiate track athlete, I've experienced first-hand the turmoil female athletes (whether they identify as lesbian or not) endured at the hand of coaches and peer athletes.  These same athletes, who were also my friends, were labeled as "butch" and "lesbos" and misjudged accordingly because of what others assumed or "saw." 

In high school, I was called a "man" a "horse" and a "dinosaur" for the way I appeared on the basketball court and track.  My legs were huge. I'd curse when I got upset. I was faster than all the other girls (and some guys).  And at times, I walked around with a head scarf wrapped around my head because 1) it was hella comfortable during track meets and basketball games, and 2) it was hella cold in Cleveland, Ohio.  The folks who called me a man, horse, or dinosaur learned somewhere that if the fastest girl or best long jumper in the state didn't act (or hell, look) like a lady or wasn't girly in nature and in stature that she, that I, must be the opposite of that; manly, animal-like, and monstrous.  Some people's logic is the epitome of #epicfail.

The sexualization and over feminization of female athletes is nothing new, and neither is the ridicule female athletes experience because who they are and how they act don't measure up to another person's standard of womanhood.  I share in Evans position that dressing up these women for a website or media guide is offensive because it works to undermine the ability each one of these athletes have worked to master since childhood. And I'll take it a step further; the fact that these universities are promoting an overtly feminized "illusion" is asinine and creepy (Texas A&M coach Gary Blair adjusting his tie in the picture above is just all kinds of weird).

Whether these women like to wear dresses or not, or whether they identify as homosexual or heterosexual isn't the issue.  The problem is disconnect: What does wearing a silky prom dress circa 1999 or posing in a sultry manner while wearing a black cocktail dress have to do with how many boards these women can grab per game or how accomplished they are on and off the court?  What does one thing have to do with the other? If my school or coach would've ever suggested that I pose wearing a dress or high heels for the sports media guide/website so as means to appear "powerful, beautiful, strong, and accomplished," I would've laughed hysterically in their face and redirected them to my stellar grade point average, field goal percentage stats, and scholarship awards instead. 

Don't play me for a fool.

When the game means more than wind sprints and foul shots. When it takes on a different connotation. When it becomes as much about how these women look as about how they play and hustle on the court. When young girls, hoping to one day play for schools like Penn State, Texas A&M, Florida State, or the WNBA, think that part of being a powerful, beautiful, strong, and accomplished female athlete means looking good in a dress or high heels, then society--touting tolerance in the guise of fear and cowardice--has officially failed its daughters.

The day we start asking our men's teams to pose for media guides and websites in Rambo outfits with machine guns strapped to their backs to appear, you know, "manly" instead of appearing like, you know, basketball players is when you'll catch me on the first flight to a desert island. Ok, maybe that was kinda an exaggeration of epic proportions, but arguably not as ridiculous as female basketball players posing for "glamour shots" in collegiate sports media guides.

*head desk*




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  • By OakleyAM on November 20, 2009 at 06:05 PM
    One thing that I think is an important concept that many people aren't getting is that women who are less feminine than oh, say, Barbie (ya, thats a lot of us) are not necessarily lesbians. (And obviously lots of very feminine women are lesbians). But a lot of people just can't get that into their heads. And I won't even get into how far people like the gross-er-roni Rene Portland are from realizing that "Big Bad Lesbians" are an awesome and integral part of the human race, let alone the sports world. It's unprincipled that coaches should have lines like "no drugs, no lesbians." Thanks Tara for the article and I hope that dialogue like this at least means we are on our way to more understanding society.
  • By DebbieD on November 20, 2009 at 07:20 AM
    I don't know guys, I like putting on a dress sometimes! Think about the way you felt in high school from all the sh** you got from people.... now multiply that onto a huge public forum where it's not just your high school that sees you like that. These girls still look strong and powerful to me in this photograph. (Although I agree they could have found some dresses better that "silky prom dresses circa 1999" so funnny!) I think when you send your image out into the world, you have a choice as to how you want to be seen, and these girls probably felt good to have something different. Plus, I know many lesbians who like to wear dresses too! Also, I think man players get sexed up too... shirtless, muscles, etc..
  • By smarttdj on November 19, 2009 at 03:53 PM
    Women's sport shouldn't have to resort to this sort of thing to get noticed. Alas, it seems it does. Look at women's football (soccer), beach volleyball & now basketball.
  • By lehauser on November 19, 2009 at 10:02 AM
    Wow, I just looked at the Florida Women's Basketball website and my reaction was total confusion. I mean, no offense, but whoever decided to do this - is really confused about the actual meaning of women in sports. The goal isn't to try and sex-ify it, dress up, or have full page spreads of photos in high heels. It just seems totally overdone, cheesy and gross un-representation of what a female athlete should actually be. Well, I agree with a lot of what you said, and I could probably go on forever about each aspect, but Im just going to go with a HELL YAH, I support this blog and everything you stand for!
  • By trinachi on November 18, 2009 at 08:18 PM
    What a crazy world we live in. "Experience the Spirit"? Is that photo supposed to exemplify the spirit of women's basketball? Remind me, just how many women play basketball in short dresses and stiletto heels?

    I'm with you, Tara. There's no way I would ever pose in black heels for a sports photo shoot. I'm not an ultra-feminine sort of gal, and I would feel totally out of character in a shoot like that. Proving that sports can be sexy and feminine was never my goal, and frankly, it never will be. Sporty women ARE attractive, but proving their femininity through unrealistic representations isn't what makes the sport (or the athlete) sexy.
  • By mjdicker on November 18, 2009 at 06:46 PM
    Thanks for the post. The sexism test I use, particularly for media, is simple: Would a guy ever be in this situation, or would that be totally ridiculous? Music videos are a prime example. Shakira writhing around in a flesh-colored bodysuit in her "She Wolf" video. Beyonce and her backup dancers in high-cut leotards and high heels in "Single Ladies." SNL happened to parody the latter, with Justin Timberlake and a couple of actors dressed like Beyonce. This further proved the point that male professionals don't need to sex themselves up and show lots of skin to market what they do. Women shouldn't have to, either.
  • By gilliebean on November 18, 2009 at 04:47 PM
    HELLS YEAH, Tara. This is sickening on so many levels. What does a female athlete's sexuality (gay, straight, bi, who the hell cares?) have to do with her abilities? It is ridiculous and insulting to try to "girlify" them so people can see that they're not too butch or threatening or, you know... talented, strong, better than these narrow-minded fools. Sports weren't big at my small college, so I had no idea this was such an issue. I'm glad you showed the haters in high school and college. It's funny, at my high school, most of the female athletes were also popular and good students, so I never really heard that kind of BS.

    I am really interested in seeing "Training Rules"-- I can't imagine a coach doing that to her players. It's so disturbing how deep that kind of homophobia runs. Thank you for this post!
  • By Mesonamin on November 18, 2009 at 03:06 PM
    Tara, you are a badass. I totally agree on all counts and amen to the creepiness of the coach adjusting his tie like he is the master of the harem. Gross!

    "If my school or coach would've ever suggested that I pose wearing a dress or high heels for the sports media guide/website so as means to appear "powerful, beautiful, strong, and accomplished," I would've laughed hysterically in their face and redirected them to my stellar grade point average, field goal percentage stats, and scholarship awards instead."

    Absolutely, 100% right on. Now THAT is something I want young women athletes to read, rather than some bogus Cosmo sexed up media guide...
  • By jameshodges on November 18, 2009 at 01:35 PM
    right on!

    let's be serious-- that texas team photo is a joke! i don't think many prospective students are going to be enchanted with this 'new look' for female athletics...

    the FSU pictures you linked to at least look somewhat candid...