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Gay adoption
By Jollyrancher3590 (17, Illinois) NOISEmail Jollyrancher3590

How Many Children Have Gay Parents in the US?
There were an estimated 300,000 to 500,000 gay and lesbian biological parents in 1976. In 1990, between 8 and 10 million children were being raised in a gay and lesbian household; an estimated 6 to 14 million children have a gay or lesbian parent.

What are the effects on children of having gay or lesbian parents?
It is extremely hard to say one way or the other, because almost all of the surveys have been completed by gay/lesbian advocacy groups or by religious or conservative organizations.

Florida is the only state that completely bans gay adoptions, but they do allow gays to be foster parents.

Alabama, Alaska, Arizona, Georgia, Indiana, Kansas, Kentucky, Michigan, Missouri, Ohio, Oregon, Pennsylvania, Tennessee, Utah, Vermont, and West Virginia are discussing the issue or considering banning gay adoptions.

Only recently have gay parents begun openly adopting children, instead of lying about it by claiming one partner is a roommate or friend. Generally, one parent adopts and then their partner applies to be the second parent. Second parent adoptions are accepted in twenty-one states and Washington D.C. Only four states, Vermont, New Jersey, Massachusetts and California permit same sex couple adoption where both parents adopt the child at the same time.

There are three types of adoption agencies:

Public Agency Adoption: The state decides whether it is okay for the child to be placed in a gay/lesbian parent household.

Independent Adoption: This type of adoption is done through someone other than an agency or social worker, i.e., a doctor or attorney. This type is illegal in many states.

International Adoption: The foreign country decides whether it is ok for the child to be placed in a gay/lesbian parent household. Many countries are not ok with gay/lesbian adoption.
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nuture| scyer
If parents are gay, the child will most likely adopt the parent's customs, and/or ways of living! Most likely means very very very very possible.
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Who cares if they do?| Angoodlime
There are three major flaws with your veiw point. First of all being gay is not about what your parents are. There are gay kids with a married mother and father. Also how many kids rebal to their parents views? Alot and it's going to happen if the parents are gay just as it does with straight parents. So the kid might not turn out day. And last but not least even if they did who cares? They had a loving home and two parents that loved and cared for them because of this it changed their life in a good way that they WILL be thankful for. It's people like you who need to grow up and understand that your logic is wrong. Being gay is not something you can catch it's not spreadable. And it's not a bad thing! People like you need to just let people have lives of their own and stop butting in!
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These comments actually make sense to the people making them?| Naidel
I don't get this. We are on a debate site so you have a right to state your opinion, but if any of you that said it wasn't right for homesexuals to raise children and yet you are against discrimination... Well, then I don't get you. And I mean any discrimination. First of all, why is it wrong? The only reason it is considered wrong is b/c some people don't like homosexuals. What is wrong with kids growing up gay? I don't see the problem with it. And that is a completely biased thing to say that the child is more likely to grow up gay. It all depends on the person, even if gay/lesbian people are kept from adopting there will stil be gay people in this world. Do you not get that? It's not a choice it is a way of life. This country, the USA, is destroying itself. We can't call ourself an equal control if we have arguments like this. So, all I am asking is why does it matter? To all of those people who are against it, they need to really ask themselves, what is the problem with it? How can people say that homosexuals are wrong disgusting and then turn around and say things like, 'Discrimination is bad and you shouldn't judge people from the way they are.'? Seriously, think about it.
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That is soooo wrong....| gsto
I can understand a kid being raised in a normal household then finding out later in life they are gay. But you raise a kid in a gay environment that puts a big scar on their take of life. We all have our own opinions and mine- I think it is totally wrong for gay people wanting to raise a kid.
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Your soooo wrong....| strawberrypie
That is a very narrow-minded opinion! Why would it leave a scar? Because the childs parents are the same sex? Or would the child grow-up with a better understanding and a wider view of the world then you yourself have? What is wrong about wanting to raise a child? Nothing! Is it so wrong that a loveing couple want to raise an unwanted child, left in a foster home for, who knows how long! Is it wrong that a couple want to bring it up, love it, and give it a good home? Does it matter if they are the same sex? Love is Love, pure and simple.
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i should know| jusme
i have two cousins, both little girls ages 11 & 9. They are being raised by their biological mother n her partner. She is a lesbian. They are beginning to ask questions about their father, but the mother answers that it isn't important. It's extremely important! These two girls are growing up without one of the most important roles models in their life. What ever happened to daddy's little girl?! It hurts them because they feel as if they did something wrong to not have a father. I think it does hurt the kids being raised by gay parents n the long run. I do not question that these lesbian parents love the girls, but i do question their methods. I think it would be better if they were raised in a home that had equal parentshood of the important roles of a mother and a father.
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yes and no| Angoodlime
I agree with you on some points. Yes they should have a father in their lives and they mothers should talk to them about him. Yet at the same time I don't think it's going to hurt the little girls. I have a friend who's father died while she was six and she's doing fine with just her mother and godmother helping. So it can go either ways but in the end it's up to them. It's not our lives to live.
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It is already hard enough to lead a normal life as a gay couple, the fact that a gay couple cannot marry shows America turning their backs on their on citizens. I strongly belive in freedom of choice and know several gay couple, one with a child. America and the media make growing up hard, not gays.
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...Whatever| TeenMisfit91
My aunt and her life mate who is a female are pregnant by artificial insemination. And they are going to be AMAZING parentsno matter if they are straight, gay, lesbian, so on and so forth. They are still people. My biological dad isnt gay and he was a horrible father. Thats kind of like saying that a caucasion person and an african american person cant have kids or like a single mom cant take care of a son. Thats messed up! No joke.
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I think it shouldn't even be an issue.| actkindrandomly
Who is to say that people who are homosexual who want to have kids would be less capable of taking care of a child? Who is to say that a straight parent would be any better at it? I have plenty of friends who have bad STRAIGHT parents and some who have fantastic and loving parents who are homosexual. It has nothing whatsoever to do with what sexual preference you have. I understand the argument that says that possibly you would miss maybe the dad influence or the mom influence in some cases but some children do already when the parents are heterosexual. Why not let gay or lesbian couples adopt? The adoption rate would decrease and the children would be loved. Isn't love for a child the most important thing a child needs? You can fill the void of a "father figure" or a "mother figure" in different ways but love is a void you can't just fill. So to say that it would "scar" the child or anything like that is rediculous. In that case people who are straight shouldn't adopt or have kids either. I know plenty of people who have been scarred by heterosexual parents. Sorry I am not barking at you Jollyrancher3590 just responding to the article. I respect everyone's right to an opinon this is just touchy for me.
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Ignorant| Maritza89
CLose your eyes and open your mind. We are just as capable of caring for and loving a child as any straight person if not more so. How about those parents who beat and rape their children? Are those children not left with a scar? Be open minded... think beyond the little box society has inclosed you in. Most childen would prefer a loving homosexual family then a life of abuse or an orpanage. You can blame it on the fact they don't have both sex parents but don't children whos father or mother walk out have only 1 role model? Should the parent be3 forced to give up the child or marry again? No because regadless of the situation the child will grow healthy and strong and normal with the lovng care of the parent. The question shouldnt be if the parents are gay will the child be "normal" it should be will the parents raise the child with all the love and caring as any other heterosexual parents.
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fact| scyer
There are two genders in this world. For a reason. What if...the whole world was Lesbian and Gay? What THEN?
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That will never happen. Our world is so narrow-minded, that that is impossible. but, If it was possible, our world would be exactly the same. Are you saying that Gay and Lesbian couples can't have children? That's not true. There's artificial Insimination. So, No. Humans would not dissapear from the earth if everyone was Gay or Lesbian. And they are just as good or better parents than straight parents. If they turn out gay, that's okay. And if they turn out straight, that's okay too. But the sexuality doesent matter. What matters is their quality of life. It's all about the child.
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